What Do Men Want
So what do men really want in a woman? It’s important to know so that you can get and keep that perfect relationship. The trouble is that men and women are so different that understanding between genders can sometimes seem impossible!
Don’t get discouraged. It is possible for women to understand what do men want, at least enough to be able to provide what he is looking for in a relationship. If you can do that, then he will be happy, and he will be more apt to try to make you happy. Here are a few pointers on to help you begin answering the question: “what men do want”?
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1. Beauty
Let’s be honest, here. Men are very oriented towards visual stimulation, and what men want in a woman is one whose appearance is stimulating to them. Take care of yourself. Part of what attracts a man to woman is the idea that she cares enough about herself to take care of her body. So take some time off for yourself. Go to the salon occasionally, and be prepared to meet men anywhere. If you don’t fit the “Hollywood” image of beauty, don’t worry about it. Most men have specific tastes in women, and the image that Hollywood portrays is not the universal standard for beauty. Give yourself a chance to believe that you are beautiful. Make your own true beauty shine. Men of character will notice.
What men want in a woman is not only outer beauty, but inner beauty as well. Contrary to popular belief, inner beauty DOES matter to men (at least to men worth keeping!), but it is always the visual that opens the door to men’s hearts. Once a man is visually attracted, then you can let him see your inner beauty. If he’s a keeper, he will value your inner beauty far more than your outer beauty.
2. Brains
What men want for long term relationships is a woman with some brains. Any man who would feel threatened by an intelligent woman is not a top-notch man. A man wants to be able to place confidence in a woman’s ability to manage herself, the household, the family finances, and children. Not only that, but men want to be able to have stimulating and interesting conversations. They aren’t generally interested in neighborhood gossip! So read a lot, try to stay on top of world events, and learn everything you can so that you can have full, meaningful conversations with a top-notch guy!
3. Balance
Last on our list of what men want in a woman is balance. Men do not want a woman who is all beauty. They also do not want a woman who is all brains. The “all-beauty” type of woman is the type that less-than-desirable men pursue. These men just want gratification, and that is not what you want in your relationship, is it? The “all-brains” types are more likely to find a man who is interested in a healthy, long term relationship, but it may be hard for the man to notice the “all-brains” type in the beginning, and frankly, being excessively brainy can be a bit of a drag.
It you want to find and keep a great man, then try to strike a balance. Regardless of whether you think you are beautiful or not, try to spice up your appearance. Be clean, take care of your body, wear a little make-up. I guarantee that you are much more beautiful than you think, and good men will be drawn to you if you just make a bit of effort. Likewise, study, read, learn. Try to hone your mind. Take up some mentally stimulating hobby. In short: what men want are women who are interesting: physically, mentally, and socially.
